Things I've Learned, In No Particular Order...

Well...  I have certainly been a BUSY girl these last couple of months...  I can't believe it's April already!  March just came and went, and I'm suspecting that April is about to do the same...  I could write a blog on the things going on in my life, but that can pretty much be summed up in a few sentences: 1. I'm getting married NEXT MONTH and have been frantically pulling everything together for it, 2. I'm staying sober one day at a time, and doing the thing necessary to achieve that - I go to meetings, I meet new women, I pray my butt off, I talk with a sponsor, I go to conferences, etc., 3. I'm getting geared up to run in a 5k marathon that benefits alcoholics and addicts with scholarships to go back to college.

There, my life is summed up...  Now, what I would like to write about is the things I've learned, along with a little tribute to some of the ones who taught me:

* TRUE friendship never dies...  It may lay dormant for a period of time, but it's those friends that you can go a month without talking to, and upon finally exchanging words again, you realize nothing has changed, everything just picks right back up...  THOSE are the kind of friendships I have these days...

* Patience is not something I can master...  Biting my tongue is...

* Forgiveness is remembrance without the pain... (Totally stole that one from W2W)

* My family is crazy, but they're mine, not yours.  

* Amber moving to Atlanta hurt a lot more than I thought it would.  I didn't realize how much I had truly leaned on her until she was gone.  However, she has always been/always will be a true inspiration in my life, and I simply can not WAIT till I get to see her again 

* Calamity is anything that I've decided can NOT be happening to me...  It can be as big as a loved one dying, or the cable going out at home...  (Eh... stole that from Lakeside)

* The thought of doing a 5K is a little more than intimidating to me, but I'm walking through it regardless.  

* My dogs can melt my heart in an instant...

* I love coffee...

* Women are not the enemy, and they're not really all that scary...  Well... SOME of them are... But really, what are they going to do??  Beat me up and steal my lunch money?!

* Though I may not see her often, Alex would do absolutely anything for me...  As I would for her...  

* I'm actually pretty smart!  Sometimes my head won't compute everything as fast as I would like, which leads to frustration, but when that light goes off and everything seems to slide into place...  It's a feeling that can DEFINITELY surpass getting high.

* Being smart does not give me the right to berate others...  However, I find myself doing that often...  Another practice in biting my tongue. 

* I have a maternal instinct.  Even though I want to deny it, it's obviously there.  I get protective of my friends, the ones I hold dear to my heart.  I'm like a momma bear, ready to strike at anyone that threatens them.  Where the hell did that come from?!?!?!

* Having a friend like Angela is nothing short of a pure blessing...  Angela was one of the VERY few who loved me at those times when I was unlovable...

* Planning a wedding is consuming...

* I am not perfect

* It is not God's fault that my father and my grandfather have passed on.  It is a part of the cycle.  I simply don't like that answer, but accepting it isn't contingent on liking it.

* My grandmother is quite possibly one of the strongest people I know...

* Having a relationship with my sister was something I desired my entire life.  I didn't realize that until I finally got it...

* God doesn't exactly work in mysterious ways, He works in His own way...  And it's not my job to figure out His plan.

* I'm always OKAY.  Period.

* Having a party thrown in your honor is just about one of the COOLEST things that can happen to you.  

* I have a lot of people I call my "best-friend"  Each of them has been a pivotal point in my life, in the experiences that I walk through.  While they are all my friends throughout all the experiences, I end up having one or two of them that TRULY hold my hand.  It's actually pretty neat!!

* Not naming all my friends in this blog makes me feel a little guilty, so, to those that KNOW they are close in my heart, I must ask you to be okay with just that.  There's not enough time, or space, for me to listed each of y'all individually... 

* My actions in my friendships speak louder than my words...

* The ability to state "I don't care what the scale says, that I just want to look in the mirror and love what I'm seeing," is purely liberating...  

* Working out can be addicting 

* Of all my best-friends, there's one that takes the cake.  My fiance, Clay.  I sometimes forget that we are friends as well as lovers.  I sometimes get stuck on fixing our "relationship" and forget that there's a friendship there as well...  Communication is key to our growth.  He knows my quirks, I know his.  The fact that we're both still around is pretty much amazing haha!  To marry my best-friend is a childhood fantasy...  He really is my prince charming.

* Being "friends" with my mother is something I've done my whole life...  Being a DAUGHTER to my mother is a new development.  I hope I can continue to stay open to that...

* Humility comes in all shapes and sizes...

* I love Minesweeper

* I'm naturally lazy

* Going back to school intimidates the SHIT out of me.  SO...  I pray for courage...

* Changing my name to Halliburton does not mean I am no longer a Knox...

* I despise being called Kimmie -- another practice in biting my tongue...

* Kissing Clay is one of my very favorite pass times...

* I love to cook, but I don't love to cook every night!

* American Idol is a new obsession of mine

* After finding an old journal of mine (I started it when my father was in the hospital...) I've realized I haven't changed as much as I thought I would have...

* Being happy doesn't mean I have everything, simply means that everything I have is worth having...


I'm pretty sure that I'm getting paid right now, which means I'm really pretty sure they want me to work   Thanks, as always, for reading the crazy ramblings of my mind...  Catch ya next month!